Armadillo Animal Medicine: Boundaries
What a gift it is to set your boundaries so that harmful words or intentions just roll off.
What a gift it is to set your boundaries so that harmful words or intentions just roll off. Your lesson is in setting up what you are willing to experience. If you do not wish to experience feeling invaded, just call on Armadillo medicine.
A clue to how to proceed is to make a circle on a piece of paper and see it as a medicine shield. In the body of the shield, write all that you desire to have, do, or experience. Include all things that give you joy. This sets up boundaries that allow only these chosen expediencies to be a part of your life. These boundaries become a shield that wards off the things, which are undesirable to you. The shield reflects what you are and what your will is to others on an unconscious level. Outside of the shield you may put what you are willing to experience by invitation only, for example a visit from a long lost relative, or criticism from friends, or people needing handouts.
If Armadillo has waddled into your cards, it is time to define your space. You may have been too willing to let your home become a bus station. You may find that you cannot say “no” even when you know that you will have to cancel plans to be obliging. This routine can get old in a hurry! It may be time to ask yourself the following questions: (1) Am I honoring the time I need for my personal enjoyment? (2) Do others treat me like a doormat? (3) Why do I always get upset when I am taken for granted? (4) Is there a reason for my being a “yes” person?
All of the answers to these questions relate to setting up boundaries; what you will and won’t do; what makes you feel uncomfortable and what is comforting to you. How you react in any circumstance has to do with your ability to be objective. You cannot be objective if you cannot tell where the other person’s personality stops and where yours begins. If you have no boundaries, you are like a sponge. It will seem as if all the feelings in a room full of people must be yours. Ask yourself if you are really feeling depressed, or if this feeling actually belongs to the person you are talking to. Then allow Armadillo’s armor to slide in- between, giving you back your sense of self.
Respect your Sacred Space. Drop hesitations and banish abuse. Use proper boundaries and thrive.
Source: Sams, Jamie and Carson, David. Medicine Cards (Santa Fe: Bear and Company, 1988).« Back to Glossary Index